When we think of love, we have this picture perfect, Disney-like scene imagined where we spend the rest of our lives with our soulmate. And that person is the combination of a best friend, true love and a life partner.
We believe that with our soulmate each day is joy, each morning is a blessing and each night passes in gratitude.
Yet, the reality is different. In the world were Tinder is king, do soulmates exist? And if they do, who is my soulmate?
Unfortunately, there is no scientific proof that they exist, but there is evidence that people believe in finding “the one.”
80 percent of youngsters aged under 30 believe in the idea of soulmates. The percentage decreases as people age. Surprisingly, men are strong believers of soulmates (74%) rather than women (71%).
Do you fit in the category of a believer? Then read on to identify the signs and what you should do to find the perfect match.
When you find that person, you feel an uncontrollable attraction and irrational sense of familiarity as if you’ve known him for a lifetime.
Naturally, that person should have the same values and enjoy similar activities, respect you, understand you and have the same vision of the future.
The key to a successful relationship is the willpower from both sides to stay in the relationship.
It’s not all about who you are and what you do, but how you treat each other, how you get along, and how you evolve in the relationship.
Your partner should support your life dreams, should admire and respect you.
Does that sound ideal?
Well, it’s not!
Examine how do you want others to treat you. You will realize that having a person who honestly believes in your greatness is fundamental.
Thus, to have a relationship like this, you must do certain things to be ready to meet your perfect mate.
Remember that everything starts with YOU! And you are the creator of your future.
We all are different and unique at some point. Find those qualities that distinguish you from the others and embrace them.
Once you do, learn how to enjoy your company. Develop a passion, strengthen your skills and enjoy the solitude. Make yourself attractive as others love to be in the company of such people.
It’s perfectly reasonable to feel dismal from time to time, but it’s essential to feel confident most of the times.
A confident smile is the best makeup for you!
The sense of responsibility is another character others find as an important trait in a person. Admit your mistakes, learn from it and move forward.
Be responsible for your life, your choices, your career, and your decisions.
There is no magic formula to make your relationship with another person work. Couples fight and argue, but in the end, the understanding of each other is what counts.
A true soulmate is the one who accepts you, is your biggest fan and makes you feel comfortable next to him in any situation.
Next time you ask yourself who is my soulmate, remember that you might meet him when you least expect it. And once you do, you will instantly know who is your perfect mate!
Also published on Medium.
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